Depression

Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 3:27 pm

I just found this support group, so I am not sure how it works. Hopefully someone can share there experience with me..all my friends are having babies, and I feel there is no one who understands how hard this is. My husband and I have only been trying for six months..I know that is not that long, but it is really starting to upset me. I am at the point where I break down everytime I have to go to a baby shower. Even going to church is difficult, because I spend the entire time looking at the babies. I need this support group to feel like there may be hope with this.

_________________ 10/29/05

Welcome. I so know how you feel i have been TTC for almost 2 years and i am a the same way. it gets pretty qute around here but when ever you need to talk just post and i will be here for you. there are some great ladies on here. good luck to you and lots of Babydust for you.

_________________ 10/29/05

You sould come over and boycott BFNs with us. here is the url just click it and it will take you over.
http://emptynest.11.forumer.com/viewtopic.php?t=61

Newbie Joined: 03 Aug 2007 Posts: 1

Hi, I'm new to this site as well. I am 22 years old, which a lot of people say is too young to be worried about infertility. However, it hits me directly in the face each month when I start my period. My husband and I have been married for 9 months. We wanted children from the beginning. He comes from a family of 10, and having babies is a huge thing in their family. All I have ever wanted to do was be a mom. I've always had a lot of menstrual problems and pain. I am having a laparoscopy in two weeks to diagnose my problem. It is so hard. People tell me that I just need to relax, and give it time, etc, etc. I'm sure you've heard it all. I try so hard not to be jealous or upset, but I can't help it. All of my friends are having babies, all of my sister in laws are having babies. My one sister in law got pregnant on her wedding night. We are young and healthy, and it is so frustrating to be facing this. Maybe we can all help eachother.

_________________ 10/29/05

Sunshine i am so sorry i know too well how you feel we started ttcing when i was 25 and i am now a year from 30 it makes me so sad. i have two sisters one has 4 and the other is 8 years youner than me and is be with her first it is realy had to feel the out cast. I pray that we all get our BFPs soon.